An Update

Greetings! Since my last post saying that I wouldn't be sending out Christmas cards this year, I thought I should at least take some time here to wish everyone a Merry Christmas, Happy Hanukkah and a great New Year. Also to once again thank you for your love and support during the toughest two years of my family's life.

2008 may start out tough for us as well. I received word on Friday, that I am part of my company's next round of RIFs, due to the declining housing market. My last day of employment is Dec. 31st. I have to admit that I am looking forward to some downtime after the two years we have just been through. From Trish's Aunt Mary to just about everyone at Hopkins, they will tell you that between my caretaking duties for Trish and my work, bills and insurance -- my days were full and stressful. I slept and relaxed very rarely if at all.

Trish would be quick to remind me that I am a work-a-holic and help get me back to work quickly. She could tell if I was enjoying my work or not, sometimes even before I realized that I wasn't she would know. I am going to miss her guidance and direction moving forward. She was not a business person in any way shape or form, but sometimes she gave me the best business advice.

This Friday, we will hang Trish's picture on the Christmas Tree at church during a special memorial Mass for family members who have passed away this year. This Sunday, the 7pm Mass at St Bart's is being said for Trish. This is where we met in 9th grade and where after college we met again and after a lot of racket ball and youth ministry -- fell in love. It's where we were married and both our boys were baptized. It will be strange to be back at St. Bart's, but I am planning on attending this Mass.

Our neighbor Sandy is helping to type up recipes for the cookbook, with her help and my new found time without a job -- we should be able to publish a book early in the new year. I'll use the email list to let everyyone know when it is available.

Have a great holiday and new year!